Although priority is obviously given to people who sign up for the entire year, Carole Manship the programme manager  has agreed to offer a limited number of, first come first served, places at an amazing £100 plus VAT to individuals interested in particular single topics.  I personally would recommend the topic in march as positively scrumptious

With very best regards,
Don

Mindstyle Peak Performance Coaching with Chris Green.

Click on the Speaker Icon below to listen in as Don excites the relationship between Chris and his new product ‘Linked in Unleashed’

Loving Your Product

They are Very Useful for understanding and influencing behaviour
I believe we must know our purpose, understand our natural drives and recognise our  human needs.

3 Keys to Purpose

4 Natural Drives

3 Human Needs

There are 3 human needs
Each need has a tendency to one of 2 states
A moving away state – >avoid pain< and
A moving towards state – <seek pleasure>

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Autumn leaves limbless fall down.
Once green with life connected sure
Certain that certain things don’t change.
And reality is life and growth and love,
A little boy skips and kicks dead leaves with joy
And laughs as mommy prays he won’t trip up.

She recalls he gave her up
Lover’s promises of forever let her down
And left her low with growing joy,
That strong would leave her weak for sure.
Like the fair that from itself declines is love,
Blind destiny just another word like change.

Who like sudden spring can change?
The heart’s frozen winter and warm up
Ice cold indifference and rekindle love?
Rather hate than this nothing that holds her down.
Security a cracked mirror that cannot be sure
It’s illusion of safety will ever return joy

Summers strength, heat and embrace, that joy
Power and redoubtable resolve defying change,
Can anyone, any dream again be that sure?
A young woman with sleepy eyes smiles as she wakes up.
She shivers and says she thinks the down
Feels chilly, and snuggles closer to her true love.

It was meant to be, she whispers to love
Know that you are my eternal joy,
There is no better, though heaven come down.
A little boy asleep, dreams of winning for a change
Of a time, a place, a person who stands to help him up
Who says and means and lives ‘of me you can be sure’.

On the shifting deck seasoned feet are sure,
A man is either quick or dead in love
Life holds on to all the choices we will not give up.
From the joy we build for others comes our joy
The laws of nature flatter and dissemble, and never change
Woman or Man the one you hold up cannot let you down.

Never give up, on the seeds of joy,
They are sure as life and their fruit is love
And their only change is to draw more love down.

Khing replied: “I am only a workman:
I have no secret. There is only this:
When I began to think about the work you commanded
I guarded my spirit, did not expend it
On trifles, that were not to the point.
I fasted in order to set
My heart at rest.
After three days fasting,
I had forgotten gain and success.
After five days
I had forgotten praise or criticism.
After seven days
I had forgotten my body
With all its limbs.

“By this time all thought of your Highness
And of the court had faded away.
All that might distract me from the work
Had vanished.
I was collected in the single thought
Of the bell stand.

“Then I went to the forest
To see the trees in their own natural state.
When the right tree appeared before my eyes,
The bell stand also appeared in it, clearly, beyond doubt.
All I had to do was to put forth my hand
and begin.

“If I had not met this particular tree
There would have been
No bell stand at all.

“What happened?
My own collected thought
Encountered the hidden potential in the wood;
From this live encounter came the work
Which you ascribe to the spirits.”

- Chuang Tzu

Truly great/inspirational leaders rarely fit any particular model of “the leader” and often start out as the most unlikely candidate… check out recent history, where more people feared for Barracks life than how hard it would be to maintain his positive opinion rating. also check out -attributes-of-inspirational-leaders

Call of Duty is someone else’s Passion and they’ve got you paying time and money to play their game and fulfil there dream. Time is your biggest asset, how are you investing it, in your dream in your studies or in someone else’s dream, someone else’s plan? you know you can’t get any of it back, this time thing, you do know that don’t you?

There is no prize… out there. The prize is inside of you and if you haven’t found your prize and your passion yet… inside is the only place you can find it. Kevin Spacey tells it beautifully… as always

It’s a piece on the Relationship Ratio…

The Relationship Ratio

The Relationship Ratio is the ratio between supporting and motivating in a relationship.

In strong human relationships the ratio of support to motivation will be greater than 10 to 1.

Supporting is time expensive and energy efficient. Supporting leads to increases in personal emotional strength.

Motivating is time efficient and energy expensive. Motivating expends personal emotional power.

Relationships can be quickly strengthened by identifying opportunities to improve your Relationship Ratio. Take every opportunity to replace motivation strategies with supporting strategies.

3 things to Pay attention to when you are working on your ratios:

Notice how effective it is to replace a motivating strategy with a supporting strategy

Notice how the ego resists efforts to replace a motivating strategy with a supporting strategy.

Notice how acurate you become at providing empowering support and positive motivation at the right times and in the correct amounts.

And as A. A. Milne’s Christopher Robin said to Pooh Bear;

‘Promise me you’ll always remember: You’re braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.’